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Best time to post in r/elationship_advice
The best and worst hours to post, the rules that get posts removed, and a check of your draft against both.
r/elationship_advice publishes no formal rule list, which makes removals harder to predict. It is a restricted subreddit that allows both text and link posts and does not require post flair.
The best and worst hours to post in r/elationship_advice
In our sample of 4 recent and top r/elationship_advice posts, activity and scores peak around Wednesday 10am UTC, and are weakest around Wednesday 10am UTC. Based on posts sampled through Aug 31, 2026. Times in this sentence are UTC; the grid below converts to your local timezone. Timing helps a clean post get seen. It does not save a post that breaks a rule.
- Window 1
Wed around 10am
avg score 7 · 2 posts sampled
Your timezone: UTC (GMT+0). Darker cells mean more posts in our sample.
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Survival rate
We are still collecting enough recent posts from r/elationship_advice to publish an honest estimate. Every number on this page is measured, not guessed, so this box stays empty until the sample is big enough.
Can you self-promote in r/elationship_advice?
r/elationship_advice does not state a clear self-promo policy in its rules. Treat that as caution, not permission: mods remove promo at their discretion, and Reddit's sitewide spam filter still applies. A value-first post that mentions your project beats a launch-style post here.
r/elationship_advice by the numbers
- Members
- 15
- Active right now
- Not public
- Posts / day
- 0
- 0 comments / day
- Community age
- 4 years
- since Oct 20, 2021
What gets removed in r/elationship_advice
Low karma or a new account
r/elationship_advice publishes no karma or age minimum, but unpublished account filters are common at this size. New accounts should comment before posting.
Reddit's sitewide spam filter
A separate layer before the subreddit ever sees your post. New accounts posting links, URL shorteners, and repeated domains are its favorite targets. Removals are instant and silent.
A shadowbanned account
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r/elationship_advice posting questions
Can I post links in r/elationship_advice?
Yes. r/elationship_advice accepts link posts. The usual sitewide traps still apply: URL shorteners, affiliate parameters, and brand-new domains get filtered fast, and promotional links are judged against the sub's self-promo rules. One clean link to the original source is the safe pattern.
Does r/elationship_advice require karma to post?
r/elationship_advice does not publish a karma minimum. That does not mean there is none: many subreddits enforce unpublished karma and account-age filters that remove posts silently. If your account is new or has little karma, that is the first thing to rule out when a post disappears.
Can you self-promote in r/elationship_advice?
r/elationship_advice does not state a clear self-promo policy in its rules. Treat that as caution, not permission: mods remove promo at their discretion, and Reddit's sitewide spam filter still applies. A value-first post that mentions your project beats a launch-style post here.
Is r/elationship_advice strict?
Relaxed, by our estimate (0/100 on our strictness scale, from its 0 rules and stated gates; no removal sample yet). Strictness is about enforcement, not hostility: a strict sub is predictable if you follow its rules.
What is the best time to post in r/elationship_advice?
Based on our sample of recent and top posts, activity and scores peak around Wednesday 10am UTC. Treat this as a starting point, not a guarantee: a post that breaks a rule gets removed at any hour. The heatmap on this page converts these windows to your local time.
Why do posts get removed in r/elationship_advice?
Every subreddit runs several removal layers: its own rules, unpublished AutoMod filters, Reddit's sitewide spam filter, and account-level gates like karma and age. Many removals are silent: the post looks live to you and invisible to everyone else. Checking your draft first beats finding out after.
Rules last checked Aug 31, 2026
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